Life tips #1

How to spot a Sociopath

Lifetips Guidebook #1 – How to spot a sociopath

Characteristics: Superficially charming, with lack of “morality”, lack of remorse and shame for doing ”bad” things. They are unable to learn by experience, have pathologic egocentricity and are fundamentally incapable of loving.

Psychopathy and sociopathy are terms with intertwined clinical history, and they are now primarily used interchangeably.  The revised fourth criteria of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders for antisocial personality disorder (the personality disorder that replaced the term sociopathy) include:

A. There is a pervasive pattern of disregard for and violation of the rights of others occurring since age 15 years, as indicated by three (or more) of the following:

1. failure to conform to social norms with respect to lawful behaviors as indicated by repeatedly performing acts that are grounds for arrest
2. deceitfulness, as indicated by repeated lying, use of aliases, or conning others for personal profit or pleasure
3. impulsivity or failure to plan ahead
4. irritability and aggressiveness, as indicated by repeated physical fights or assaults
5. reckless disregard for safety of self or others
6. consistent irresponsibility, as indicated by repeated failure to sustain consistent work behavior or honor financial obligations
7. lack of remorse, as indicated by being indifferent to or rationalizing having hurt, mistreated, or stolen from another.

B. The individual is at least age 18 years.

C. There is evidence of conduct disorder with onset before age 15 years.

D. The occurrence of antisocial behavior is not exclusively during the course of schizophrenia or a manic episode.

You can find them everywhere, even in the highest positions of a country or a finance company.
Antisocials or sociopaths might look fascinating and charming, but in reality, they will never change. If they look that they have changed, this is deceitful – they do not respect human relationships/life. If they say, they changed beware as they have something else in their mind. That’s why they don’t preserve relationships with earlier collaborators in their workplace (after using them, they will throw them in the dustbin and become enemies).

People that are on the autistic spectrum might also suffer from zero levels of empathy, but when they understand that they did something wrong or hurt someone’s feelings they feel guilty and remorseful.  This is a critical difference between people suffering from autistic traits and sociopaths, as the former don’t care about other people’s feelings.

If you know someone with this kind of traits, suggest them to undertake psychoanalytic psychotherapy. As they do not accept that they suffer from any specific problem, they will never attend or might even have some minor sessions. Mainly due to zero/low levels of empathy and constant projection of cause of problems they do not accept that they suffer from anything. So the outcome of the therapy would be negative.

Declaration of Conflicting Interests

This post has an educational purpose. Conflict of Interest: Nil.  Instead of using the DSM- 5 , I have described the DSM-4 TR criteria mainly due to the fact  my personal belief is that generally they use more accurate descriptions.

Dr. Nikitas Arnaoutoglou

Clinical Fellow